PARENTS AND CHILDREN THE MISUNDERSTANDING BETWEEN TWO DIFFERENT WAYS TO LIVE
In articles in the newspaper exposed the same issue from three different points of view: a mother's anguished laments that the profound ignorance and superficiality of his son, a journalist expert in the world that speaks from the person who has seen this issue, and then those directly involved: the young, often unfairly judged too.
"Young people have no knowledge of the past and are losing interest in history," writes his mother, and "niche products are subject decadent without being aware of" continues. This is an image of himself that his son, an image that you would like to be different.
But, as the journalist Natalia Aspesi, perhaps the mother is even, in raising the child, the model proposed by advertising, the fictional world of TV, for fear of not being a good mother if she did not take home all best products, always trying to protect it, avoiding to weep, deny him without anything, and now finds himself baffled before a child at fourteen continue on the same street, while she would like to begin to broaden their knowledge alone, such outside interest to other peoples and history. I agree with you, and I think that if this is really so ignorant of fourteen and disinterested in anything that does not apply to friends and music, their liability is to be found in the parents. Parents who are not taught to "think", and built himself, who made sure that their child would grow more secure and satisfied, and, hiding behind this goal they have refused to exercise their authority. But even now that they realized, not, what was the result, not yet anything to improve the relationship with this guy and he took shelter in a "now unfortunately it is too late to build a single share of our world" because he probably would not accept proposals other than his way of thinking.
I think there is always a generational gap, I think it's normal break in communication between adults and young people. There are different interests, different ways of life ... every age has its obligations, problems and priorities, and today the social background is different from what was there when they were young adults of today.
But they are not in agreement with the journalist when Aspesi says that young people are prisoners of what is beautiful, in a scenario meaningless and empty. I see guys who, while interested in music and computers, have become values \u200b\u200bthat do not consist only in what is said on TV, or celebrities, deepest values, that even if they are often kept hidden contribute to enrich different personalities. The children interviewed
defend themselves against accusations, especially coming from parents, to withdraw into a world apart, apparently empty, arguing that they say so because they feel excluded from this world, formed only by a screen and a mouse, do not understand when they see their children become estranged in "something" virtual with their new language of abbreviations, English is "weird words."
E 'understand their disappointment in the face of a child who prefers to tell his life at a keyboard rather than to them, though, I tell many peers, most of these "desperate adults" has never done anything to try to change this situation.
Sometimes we are labeled as pack, drowned in the subject matter which luxury only be able to belong to an empty stage, where everything is based on appearance. I honestly do not recognize myself in this group, and since I am a young person today and living in contact with others like me, I see that everyone has something special important, and we are not quite as empty as we define it. Surface, they say. But I think people are just superficial ones who have decided that we are, we consider only how we look, without losing a minute of their time to see if it is true, to look a bit 'more at the bottom of our person, often very rich.
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